7 Errors Sending Text Messages That Can Ruin Your Relationship

RelationshipCouple relationships change our lives, our perspectives, and fill us with energy, especially when they are beginning.

But over time things change, and people, both men and women, begin to fall into a routine in which there is no longer any surprise or mystery, and both people become “predictable” in their communication.

Big mistake!

Friend, do not be a victim of the bad habits of communication, because they can hurt you very much, either with your current partner or your ex-girlfriend or wife.

To help you, in this article I share with you these 7 common mistakes that can ruin your relationship or your chances of regaining your relationship.

1) Stop typing your name when you send messages.

There are probably things you did when you started the relationship with her that made her fall in love with you, maybe the way you held her hand, or how you greeted her with a kiss on the cheek, or even how you surprised her with something special.

But I bet you at this stage every text message you sent, or most, you started with his name, am I wrong?

There is a certain “magic” in the sound of a person’s name that makes you special. Words like “baby”, “dear”, “cute”, can not compete with simply SAYING YOUR NAME.

If you want to keep her away from you, replace a “hello” with her “name”. If you want to start getting interested in you, always start with your name, this gives you strength and personality.

2) Just send you messages when it comes to you.

If you want her to replace you or stop being interested in you, fill your text messages with your problems, thoughts, feelings and insecurities, and ignore what she has to say.

Believe it or not, many men fall into this tremendous mistake. And while some women are very patient and only have to walk away a little when this happens, eventually they always end up getting bored of the man thinking that he is “the center of attention” and departing from the relationship.

So be careful when sending text messages. Take care that she has space to tell you about her life, and you focus, even if you are having many problems, talk about something nice and make her feel good, and only occasionally talk with her more difficult issues.

The most important thing is to calibrate. It is not good 100% of positive messages, just as clearly is not good a totality of messages loaded with problems and insecurities.

3) Do not answer the questions she asks you.

It is important, if you want to keep the interest of that woman that you like so much, or if you want to regain the relationship with your ex girlfriend or wife, you respect her and answer her what you ask, as simple as that. If you do not respond she will quickly understand that you do not care and will walk away.

4) Make her feel insecure.

Friend, remember this: a man who makes a woman feel confident and confident, will always be appreciated and the woman will want to be with him.

Acts that may be making her feel insecure are: not responding to most of her text messages, sending text messages to other women in front of her, or hiding her cell phone in front of her so she does not check it.

Do not make her feel bad!

5) Send you text messages when you are angry.

We all know that the moment we are angry and with rage accumulated our text messages will not be the best and we will REPENT from them. So why do we keep making this mistake?

Simply because it is easier for the human being to download anger in something like a text message than to tackle the problem from another angle.

It is best to wait to calm down, try to distract yourself by listening to music or watching your favorite TV show (the comedy series helps a lot to lessen the anger quickly), then let her know how you feel.

6) Never tell her a compliment when she struggles with something.

There are men who do not look at the details women make and never tell them a compliment or a nice phrase. Classic mistake that makes the woman gradually lose interest in him.

There is nothing like feeling appreciated for what you do. This affirms the couple relationships and sends the signal that you are really interested in investing in the relationship.

So the next time she does something for you, however small it is, send her a text message telling her that you appreciate her and thank her.

7) Just send text messages sexually.

Whether you’re getting to know a woman or trying to regain a relationship, sending only text messages sexually or provocatively can be your worst enemy.

Worse still is when a woman sends a text message with a tone of tenderness and affection and the man misunderstands this and responds with some face or sexually provocative message.

The woman will immediately realize what your intentions are and above all, what is most important to you, and you will lose value quickly.

Text messages can be VERY useful to improve the connection with her and grow the relationship, but they can also quickly destroy all your chances with her.

My advice is to send you text messages worrying about what your real intention behind the message, trying to make her feel good, listening to it first and then talking about you. Do not send “unsent” messages, make your text messages missed by her and have value.

Only then will you make her think a lot about you and keep the interest.

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Learn 5 Tips To Recover Your Ex Boyfriend

Recover Your Ex BoyfriendIf you want your ex-boyfriend to return to your side, your main goal is to make him fall in love with you again.

You have to make him want you the same or more than when he started dating you, to overcome all the problems that led your relationship to failure.

But… How do you achieve this goal? With the following tips:

1. Connect and discover what he wants: If you have not done so, you must first reflect on why the relationship ends. Quite often, men are not very good at expressing what they want from a woman, so you have to read between the lines to know it. Basically you may know what was the probable cause for everything to go wrong.

2. Build trust. Building trust can make even the simplest woman on the planet look like a sexy woman to men. Do not you feel confident after it’s all over? This is normal, but everyone can increase their self-esteem and build trust in others.

You have to keep in mind that if you were able to conquer your love once, the hardest part is overcome. Believe in yourself, and once your mind is aware that you are someone worth a lot, everything will be easier.

3. Turns on. After a failure of love, even emotional confusion can end in a severe depression, something difficult to correct. You also have to opt for those foods that give you energy and keep you healthy.

This is important to not gain weight because of the excess stress that this situation may be generating you, you can also guarantee that you will keep your figure in optimum conditions to fall in love again.

Exercising is also a great help. This releases endorphins that can combat depression, increase weight and makes you feel more confident and confident of yourself.

4. Do not harass him for any reason. It is important that you follow the non-contact rule and refrain from calling or sending messages (by any means) after the relationship is over. You have to be strict, so do not contact him.

Taking some time and some space will allow both to put their feelings and thoughts in order. If your boyfriend really loves you, he will realize what he has lost and then he will miss you, and then it may be the one who approaches you asking for another chance.

5. Set limits. If your ex boyfriend knows that you are desperate to get back with him, you will have the power of the relationship, which is not in your best interest. Do not let him take advantage of this.

With the rule of non-contact you can keep distance and show that your life does not revolve around his, although you and I know that it really is not. It is necessary to level the playing field and you must be in control. When he realizes that he wants you by his side again, do not despair.

Now, what follows is really important, if you want to increase the odds of getting your ex boyfriend back and be happy again with him, I suggest that you access the techniques that are on the next page.

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