5 Proven Ways For a Man To Think a Lot About You

Man To Think a Lot About YouMany women have asked me how they can make a man keep alive the interest in them, be it his ex-partner or someone they are meeting. The first thing is to clarify that arousing interest in a man and keeping him interested are different things.

It is because of this confusion that many women tend to make mistakes that ultimately drive men away. But do not be scared. You can still get that man or your ex boyfriend or husband to keep the interest and think a lot about you.

To achieve this you must make sure you follow these 5 proven ways for a man to maintain interest in you:

1) Do not be an “open book”

Men love mystery, so you have to worry about always being mysterious. Do not let this guy you’re meeting, or even your ex-partner, know all about you.

A tip for this is that whenever he feels he knows everything about you, show him a different part of you (a hobby he does not know, a sport that you like to practice, a music that catches your eye, etc.), one of which he has no knowledge. This will ALWAYS keep you interested and permanently want to find out more about you.

In fact, “little mysteries” always keep a spark in all relationships, whether new or old.

2) Do not change yourself, just improve your positives

There is something in you that caught the attention of that man you want by your side. Some feature in particular you liked and that is what you have to enhance.

Many women in trying to recover their husbands change too much, become unrecognizable, and this does not always guarantee results.

If you change too much you are more likely to get the man to lose interest. That is why you should not change your personality, should only enhance the positive aspects (increase your self-esteem) and of course, try to work the negative (jealousy, irritability, selfishness, jealousy again, etc.).

That always does remember: you should NOT always agree with what he says. This is key to maintaining your interest and making you think of yourself.

3) Be interested in what he is passionate about

Many men let their women know what they are passionate about, whether it be a style of music, a sport, their work, their favorite hobby, and so on. and many women do not pay much attention to this.

This is one of the aspects that more relationships of pair destroys. The lack of attention to the interests of your man.

If you show interest in what he is passionate about, you can have a much closer and more solid relationship. If you’ve never played golf, but you know he loves it, maybe you should spend some time learning some of the punches and accompanying him one day to perform his favorite hobby.

You have to make it clear that you do not need to like everything he likes, you just have to show interest and most important of all: pay attention to him. When I talk to you about something that appeals to you, put your cell phone or TV aside and look it in the eye.

And you never know, maybe you find a passion that you had hidden and that you can share together.

4) Praise Him from time to time

Men love to be appreciated, as do women. Make sure you recognize the little things he does and show him appreciation. Try to be as real as possible. When the situation warrants tell him that he is intelligent, gentleman, that looks good, that the appointment was great, and that you had a good time with him.

If you do these little gestures he will feel important, you will feel of value and will want to do again what made you feel good.

5) Do not rush into the sexual

This is a mistake that many women who want to regain their ex-husbands or boyfriends commit. When they meet with them after the break, they try to “catch” them by doing sexual things ahead of time.

This, unlike what many women believe, does not catch the interest of men, rather it makes them know that they do not have to push themselves too hard and that is the main problem when it comes to keeping their interest.

If you are a liberal woman this does not mean that you should “jump into bed” with him as soon as possible. Wait until they have talked more. Wait for the conversation about you to be direct and make it clear at what point each one is. Otherwise the feeling that you and he will have after a sexual relationship will be empty and even with certain shares of depression.

That is why many men after that sexual encounter do not call and disappear from the map. This is because the sexual bond was just that, something about sex and not a deeper connection with the other person.

I hope with these 5 simple yet powerful tips you can understand how to keep the interest of that man who cares so much. I assure you that if you follow them to the letter, it will make him think a lot about you and that the relationship will return to the direction you want.

How To Make Your Ex Boyfriend or Husband Miss You Like Crazy

How To Make Your Ex BoyfriendHow to make your ex boyfriend or husband miss you? It is a theme that is repeated a lot and many readers ask me often, so in this article I will talk about this topic and give you some tips for your ex to miss you.

Let’s start by talking about what will NOT make your ex boyfriend or husband miss you. That way you will know exactly what it is, FOR ANY REASON, you must do or keep doing if you want to rekindle the spark with your ex.

The first thing to do is control your impulses.

If you want to return with your ex boyfriend or husband, you need to develop an inner strength that allows you not to let yourself be carried away by your emotions and that allows you to act with RATIONALITY.

Many women are tempted to ignore proven techniques to recover a man and are carried away by their instincts, well, that does not have to be you… I have worked with thousands of women from around the world to help them increase their self-esteem and get a new start with their ex, I know what works and what does not.

The point is that sometimes your emotions will hurt you, forcing you to damage your options of returning with your ex boyfriend or husband.

There are women who have impulses, let go by their emotions, these impulses cause them to do things like:

*Write love letters to your ex.
* Buy her cheesy gifts.
*Try to convince your ex-man to go back to her as he is.

All these behaviors, in a great majority of cases, do more MAL than good. So my advice is that for now you try, at all costs, to ignore your instincts and limit yourself to follow techniques that have already been proven to save relationships.

Ignore advice from friends and close friends.

But not only must you fight with your own instincts, I also recommend that you ignore the advice of people who tell you to try to talk to your ex to get back with him.

Never, but never, you should talk to your ex trying to “convince” him to return with you, so things do not work, believe me …

In fact, any “serious” conversation with your ex boyfriend or husband, in which they talk about the problems of the relationship and try to convince him to return, will not make him miss you, in fact it will have the opposite effect.

The man who misses the woman is a normal process, which happens only, you should not force it at the beginning. Any forced conversation will make your ex miss you less and less. Every time you see him or speak to him, he will miss you less and less, precisely because he is seeing you, he is aware of you. As crude as it may seem.

If your ex can talk regularly to you in the weeks after the relationship breaks, what will happen is that your ex boyfriend or husband can adjust your life to live without you, this will actually help you, since it will cost you much less to redo your lifetime.

Disappear from your life.

So, strong and difficult as it may seem, the number 1 way to make your ex man miss you like crazy is to completely disappear from your life for a while. As soon as possible after the break of the relationship. You should cut off all nonessential communication with your ex.

How To Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back If She’s With Someone Else or Does Not Love You Anymore

get your ex girlfriend backCan get your ex girlfriend back who has started dating another man? Can you go back with an ex-girlfriend who no longer loves you? The answer to these 2 questions in one: Yes, if you can.

But before you must handle some principles of seduction and attraction to return to fall in love with your ex girlfriend, otherwise your chances of recovering will be lower.

Steps to get your ex girlfriend back.

Your ex girlfriend or wife decided to end the relationship because something did not attract him the same, not necessarily of you, but of the relationship itself.

That is why your first duty if you want to get your ex girlfriend back:

1) Think about why you left: Surely she gave you some reasons why you wanted to end the relationship, and while you should pay attention, you should know that in many cases these reasons are just pre-made phrases, such as:

a) “I need time to think what happens to me …” recover-girlfriend

b) “It’s not you, it’s me …”

c) “Things are not as before …”

d) “I’m confused …”

e) “You are very much for me, I do not deserve you …”

f) “We have very few things in common …”

g) “I’m not so excited anymore …”

h) “I want to focus on my work (or studies) …”

i) “I still do not want to compromise with anything …”


While these phrases are suggestive and can give you a “clue” to what really happened to your ex-wife, you should not rely 100% on them. It is well known that both men and women, when they end a relationship, are in most cases not entirely honest.

This is because they do not want to hurt their partner’s feelings.

On the one hand this is fine, since to tell a person something like “I do not want to be with you because I do not like you physically”, is very cruel, however, honesty will always be the best when it comes to fixing and solving problems couple, keep it always present.

To know why your ex girlfriend or wife decided to end the relationship is good to clear your mind, breathe deeply, stop suffering and you analyze coldly what could have happened:

a) No longer had sex?

b) Did you become unfaithful?

c) Did the relationship fall into a monotonous routine?

d) Did you neglect your physical appearance and your general health?

e) Did you just say NO to your invitations and panoramas?

f) Did you look for her a lot and always wanted to be with her? (One of the most common)

g) Were you jealous and asked everything he had done on the day, even, you were reviewing his mobile phone or Facebook?


It’s your job to analyze all these reasons and more, to come to an honest conclusion that tells you why your ex-girlfriend really left you.

2) Accept the term of the relationship for now: As difficult as it may seem, you MUST necessarily, if you want to get you ex girlfriend back, girlfriend, wife, or whatever your wife has been for you, accept the term relationship. This will open your mind in ways you still do not suspect.

Now you are in a situation where you do not want to accept the fact that your wife left you. You are confused, you feel sorry, in some cases rage, you do not know what to do and all you want is to ask for explanations and get it back.

Feeling all this is natural and normal, but it is not healthy and will not help you recover it.

The attitude that you must take from TODAY is an attitude of “To the shit”, or as popularly known in North America, “Fuck it”.

This means that you DO NOT care that your ex has left you, you just do not attach great importance to it and you continue with your life as it was before and even better, happier, fuller, happier, and with more time to do the things you like most.

Spend time on your hobbies or hobbies (if you do not have one, it is fundamental that you start doing something and that you are passionate about it, this may be playing a musical instrument, playing sports, having a very active social life, work, etc.). It is very important that you have hobbies, as this makes you an interesting man for your ex girlfriend and for any woman.

On the contrary, if your free time is spent on the computer, watching TV, eating and spying on your ex by Facebook or seeing pictures of the two of you when they were together, you will become everything a woman DOES NOT want from a man.

Women want independent men who are interesting, have social life, have projects that are passionate about them, and above all are not always available to them, the latter becomes very attractive for many women and is very healthy for any relationship .

A man who calls his wife all day long, who is constantly insisting that they be together and that when this can not, makes a “scandal”, will end yes or for causing the relationship to break up.

From today welcome the freedom in your life, the attitude of “fuck”, not only with the break, but with most of the problems you have, and I assure you that your attitude will change for the better.

3) Let some time pass: As I said in other articles, letting time pass (depending on the type of relationship you’ve had, but usually goes between 2 to 6 weeks) without having any contact with your ex couple is very important to “start over”.

It is essential that:

a) Your ex does not know anything about you at this time.

b) You also do not know anything about her at this time (no spying on Facebook, Twitter, phone, send messages, much less spy)

In order for this plan to be successful, you must necessarily take your free time in other activities.

Most men do not have as much willpower, and usually fall into the temptation of contacting their former women prematurely, spoiling the whole strategy.

So, when you are thinking about her, about to call her or enter your Facebook profile, call friends, family, or if you do not have anyone, leave your house for a walk. It’s amazing what can clear your mind a good walk while listening to your favorite music (not music that your former partner liked).

In this time of no contact you will heal your mind first, saying goodbye to the negative and destructive thoughts that caused the relationship to end.

And second, to improve your physical appearance. This is very simple. Your ex-girlfriend liked you physically so that’s a path you’ve already won. Now your duty is to improve that aspect.

If you gain weight, the answer is clear, you must diet following a healthy diet, this combined with daily exercise (which can be from walking to walk every day at a fast pace, jogging, or enter a gym, this it will allow you to clear your mind and meet new people, even new women).

It is also good to worry about your personal hygiene. A good haircut is never wrong, and a new hairstyle is not.

The idea of ​​all this is to increase your self-esteem through improving your physical appearance and your mental attitude, because it is proven that a man with a good self-esteem is highly attractive for women.

After some time has passed and you feel ready to go back to see your ex this will happen naturally, you can call casually to schedule an appointment, or you can answer a call from her, that at this point you will die of curiosity for hear from you.

You know what is the first thing to do if the relationship with your ex girlfriend or wife is finished.

You know the mistakes you do not have to make and what are the steps to take, now it’s up to you to implement this strategy, which has worked very well with different men from different parts of the world. Get your ex girlfriend back is possible in a short time.

How to Re-Fall in Love with an Ex-Woman – Part 2

How to Re-Fall in Love with an Ex-WomanThis article is the continuation of the titled “How to fall in love with an ex woman – Part 1″, so if you have not read it yet I recommend you check it out and then read this article.

Let’s continue… these are tips for you to become attractive and you can win back and fall in love with your ex-partner, be it your girlfriend or wife.

Become an expert on the “pauses”

From today you must be very clear that the communication is not only verbal, there is the corporal communication and the communication through the silences.

Men anxious, insecure and who fail to be attractive to the opposite sex are those who speak and speak, showing that they are afraid of silence. Women do not react well to this type of men.

The pause in your communication generates great doses of expectation. Look at something, how do you manage to attract more interest from other people? How do others talk to get your attention? Probably the answer is speaking slowly and making many pauses, as if there were no trouble.

The language of the gaze.

Winners know that sometimes words are too much and just a powerful look. A look that knows how to communicate allows you to dominate, question, blame, disapprove, approve, reward, smile, encourage, seduce, and many others.

A woman can stay thinking all night in you only by your look, as well as, a woman can completely forget you if when they had an interaction your look was weak and lost.

But do not get confused, many men to know the language of the glance obsess with their eyes and end up putting a psychotic look. What you should do is simply relax the muscles of your eyes, focus only on using them when you want to express something in particular.

Say goodbye to the tics and gestures that are over.

Focus on a famous Hollywood actor or a super seducer … how many tics, gestures or muletillas do you see in them? none, right? If you have a gesture that is repetitive or a tic that has been chasing you for some time, you must get rid of them, however.

These acts only show a degree of anxiety and nervousness that will not be beneficial in your interaction with women or with your ex.

Say goodbye to strange gestures with your mouth, arms crossed, your hands hitting tables or making noise with everything you find, your head bent to the ground, the quick blink of your eyes, the constant rubbing of your hands, and so many typical tics that only play against you.

Just relax, breathe with your diaphragm as I explained in “How to fall in love with an ex woman – Part 1″ and enjoy the moments that life gives you. Do not worry unnecessarily.

Never bend over to anyone.

This is a very typical attitude of the insecure man. For fear that the woman stops listening to him or stops paying attention, this type of man will increase the volume of his voice, lean to talk closer to the woman, etc.

These acts only make the woman feel pressured and do not want to follow the interaction. So do not turn away!

Worry about your physical appearance.

There is a very wise saying that says “there are no handsome or ugly men, there are only lazy men.” Do you really want to fall in love with your ex-wife? Honestly, do you think you can achieve that goal with your current physical appearance?

If the answer is no, start today to worry about fixing certain little details that are preventing you from getting the most out of it.

Clothing, hair, perfume and hygiene should be concepts that are more present in your life if you want to fall in love with a woman.

It is not necessary to make a total change of your appearance, only to improve what you are presenting to the world these days. A change of look is always welcome as well as a change of hairstyle and one or two new clothes.

If there is something that is playing against you at the moment, delete it. This can be a pair of old and clumsy shoes, a dirty shirt, or a hair that has been neglected for some time.

But it is important that you do not become depressed or obsessed with your physical appearance, each man can get the most out of being WHAT IS. Do not try to be someone you are not.

If your whole life has been thick, do not pretend to look like a famous person who has a physique and face very different from yours, because you will always be pretending.

Rather worry about being the most attractive man of the types of man in your category. Following these tips will be the sensation of day and night, be as you are.

Why? Because you are a Winner and your batteries are charged. Do not let anyone have the slightest doubt, much less your ex-wife.

Following these tips you will achieve your best version in a short time and this way you will be much more attractive for your ex and any woman.