How To Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back If She’s With Someone Else or Does Not Love You Anymore

get your ex girlfriend backCan get your ex girlfriend back who has started dating another man? Can you go back with an ex-girlfriend who no longer loves you? The answer to these 2 questions in one: Yes, if you can.

But before you must handle some principles of seduction and attraction to return to fall in love with your ex girlfriend, otherwise your chances of recovering will be lower.

Steps to get your ex girlfriend back.

Your ex girlfriend or wife decided to end the relationship because something did not attract him the same, not necessarily of you, but of the relationship itself.

That is why your first duty if you want to get your ex girlfriend back:

1) Think about why you left: Surely she gave you some reasons why you wanted to end the relationship, and while you should pay attention, you should know that in many cases these reasons are just pre-made phrases, such as:

a) “I need time to think what happens to me …” recover-girlfriend

b) “It’s not you, it’s me …”

c) “Things are not as before …”

d) “I’m confused …”

e) “You are very much for me, I do not deserve you …”

f) “We have very few things in common …”

g) “I’m not so excited anymore …”

h) “I want to focus on my work (or studies) …”

i) “I still do not want to compromise with anything …”


While these phrases are suggestive and can give you a “clue” to what really happened to your ex-wife, you should not rely 100% on them. It is well known that both men and women, when they end a relationship, are in most cases not entirely honest.

This is because they do not want to hurt their partner’s feelings.

On the one hand this is fine, since to tell a person something like “I do not want to be with you because I do not like you physically”, is very cruel, however, honesty will always be the best when it comes to fixing and solving problems couple, keep it always present.

To know why your ex girlfriend or wife decided to end the relationship is good to clear your mind, breathe deeply, stop suffering and you analyze coldly what could have happened:

a) No longer had sex?

b) Did you become unfaithful?

c) Did the relationship fall into a monotonous routine?

d) Did you neglect your physical appearance and your general health?

e) Did you just say NO to your invitations and panoramas?

f) Did you look for her a lot and always wanted to be with her? (One of the most common)

g) Were you jealous and asked everything he had done on the day, even, you were reviewing his mobile phone or Facebook?


It’s your job to analyze all these reasons and more, to come to an honest conclusion that tells you why your ex-girlfriend really left you.

2) Accept the term of the relationship for now: As difficult as it may seem, you MUST necessarily, if you want to get you ex girlfriend back, girlfriend, wife, or whatever your wife has been for you, accept the term relationship. This will open your mind in ways you still do not suspect.

Now you are in a situation where you do not want to accept the fact that your wife left you. You are confused, you feel sorry, in some cases rage, you do not know what to do and all you want is to ask for explanations and get it back.

Feeling all this is natural and normal, but it is not healthy and will not help you recover it.

The attitude that you must take from TODAY is an attitude of “To the shit”, or as popularly known in North America, “Fuck it”.

This means that you DO NOT care that your ex has left you, you just do not attach great importance to it and you continue with your life as it was before and even better, happier, fuller, happier, and with more time to do the things you like most.

Spend time on your hobbies or hobbies (if you do not have one, it is fundamental that you start doing something and that you are passionate about it, this may be playing a musical instrument, playing sports, having a very active social life, work, etc.). It is very important that you have hobbies, as this makes you an interesting man for your ex girlfriend and for any woman.

On the contrary, if your free time is spent on the computer, watching TV, eating and spying on your ex by Facebook or seeing pictures of the two of you when they were together, you will become everything a woman DOES NOT want from a man.

Women want independent men who are interesting, have social life, have projects that are passionate about them, and above all are not always available to them, the latter becomes very attractive for many women and is very healthy for any relationship .

A man who calls his wife all day long, who is constantly insisting that they be together and that when this can not, makes a “scandal”, will end yes or for causing the relationship to break up.

From today welcome the freedom in your life, the attitude of “fuck”, not only with the break, but with most of the problems you have, and I assure you that your attitude will change for the better.

3) Let some time pass: As I said in other articles, letting time pass (depending on the type of relationship you’ve had, but usually goes between 2 to 6 weeks) without having any contact with your ex couple is very important to “start over”.

It is essential that:

a) Your ex does not know anything about you at this time.

b) You also do not know anything about her at this time (no spying on Facebook, Twitter, phone, send messages, much less spy)

In order for this plan to be successful, you must necessarily take your free time in other activities.

Most men do not have as much willpower, and usually fall into the temptation of contacting their former women prematurely, spoiling the whole strategy.

So, when you are thinking about her, about to call her or enter your Facebook profile, call friends, family, or if you do not have anyone, leave your house for a walk. It’s amazing what can clear your mind a good walk while listening to your favorite music (not music that your former partner liked).

In this time of no contact you will heal your mind first, saying goodbye to the negative and destructive thoughts that caused the relationship to end.

And second, to improve your physical appearance. This is very simple. Your ex-girlfriend liked you physically so that’s a path you’ve already won. Now your duty is to improve that aspect.

If you gain weight, the answer is clear, you must diet following a healthy diet, this combined with daily exercise (which can be from walking to walk every day at a fast pace, jogging, or enter a gym, this it will allow you to clear your mind and meet new people, even new women).

It is also good to worry about your personal hygiene. A good haircut is never wrong, and a new hairstyle is not.

The idea of ​​all this is to increase your self-esteem through improving your physical appearance and your mental attitude, because it is proven that a man with a good self-esteem is highly attractive for women.

After some time has passed and you feel ready to go back to see your ex this will happen naturally, you can call casually to schedule an appointment, or you can answer a call from her, that at this point you will die of curiosity for hear from you.

You know what is the first thing to do if the relationship with your ex girlfriend or wife is finished.

You know the mistakes you do not have to make and what are the steps to take, now it’s up to you to implement this strategy, which has worked very well with different men from different parts of the world. Get your ex girlfriend back is possible in a short time.

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How to Re-Fall in Love with an Ex-Woman – Part 2

How to Re-Fall in Love with an Ex-WomanThis article is the continuation of the titled “How to fall in love with an ex woman – Part 1″, so if you have not read it yet I recommend you check it out and then read this article.

Let’s continue… these are tips for you to become attractive and you can win back and fall in love with your ex-partner, be it your girlfriend or wife.

Become an expert on the “pauses”

From today you must be very clear that the communication is not only verbal, there is the corporal communication and the communication through the silences.

Men anxious, insecure and who fail to be attractive to the opposite sex are those who speak and speak, showing that they are afraid of silence. Women do not react well to this type of men.

The pause in your communication generates great doses of expectation. Look at something, how do you manage to attract more interest from other people? How do others talk to get your attention? Probably the answer is speaking slowly and making many pauses, as if there were no trouble.

The language of the gaze.

Winners know that sometimes words are too much and just a powerful look. A look that knows how to communicate allows you to dominate, question, blame, disapprove, approve, reward, smile, encourage, seduce, and many others.

A woman can stay thinking all night in you only by your look, as well as, a woman can completely forget you if when they had an interaction your look was weak and lost.

But do not get confused, many men to know the language of the glance obsess with their eyes and end up putting a psychotic look. What you should do is simply relax the muscles of your eyes, focus only on using them when you want to express something in particular.

Say goodbye to the tics and gestures that are over.

Focus on a famous Hollywood actor or a super seducer … how many tics, gestures or muletillas do you see in them? none, right? If you have a gesture that is repetitive or a tic that has been chasing you for some time, you must get rid of them, however.

These acts only show a degree of anxiety and nervousness that will not be beneficial in your interaction with women or with your ex.

Say goodbye to strange gestures with your mouth, arms crossed, your hands hitting tables or making noise with everything you find, your head bent to the ground, the quick blink of your eyes, the constant rubbing of your hands, and so many typical tics that only play against you.

Just relax, breathe with your diaphragm as I explained in “How to fall in love with an ex woman – Part 1″ and enjoy the moments that life gives you. Do not worry unnecessarily.

Never bend over to anyone.

This is a very typical attitude of the insecure man. For fear that the woman stops listening to him or stops paying attention, this type of man will increase the volume of his voice, lean to talk closer to the woman, etc.

These acts only make the woman feel pressured and do not want to follow the interaction. So do not turn away!

Worry about your physical appearance.

There is a very wise saying that says “there are no handsome or ugly men, there are only lazy men.” Do you really want to fall in love with your ex-wife? Honestly, do you think you can achieve that goal with your current physical appearance?

If the answer is no, start today to worry about fixing certain little details that are preventing you from getting the most out of it.

Clothing, hair, perfume and hygiene should be concepts that are more present in your life if you want to fall in love with a woman.

It is not necessary to make a total change of your appearance, only to improve what you are presenting to the world these days. A change of look is always welcome as well as a change of hairstyle and one or two new clothes.

If there is something that is playing against you at the moment, delete it. This can be a pair of old and clumsy shoes, a dirty shirt, or a hair that has been neglected for some time.

But it is important that you do not become depressed or obsessed with your physical appearance, each man can get the most out of being WHAT IS. Do not try to be someone you are not.

If your whole life has been thick, do not pretend to look like a famous person who has a physique and face very different from yours, because you will always be pretending.

Rather worry about being the most attractive man of the types of man in your category. Following these tips will be the sensation of day and night, be as you are.

Why? Because you are a Winner and your batteries are charged. Do not let anyone have the slightest doubt, much less your ex-wife.

Following these tips you will achieve your best version in a short time and this way you will be much more attractive for your ex and any woman.

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